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Questions for couples, from fun to deep

Whether it's your first month or your tenth year, the right question still turns up something new. Start with the fun ones, save the deeper ones for a quiet night, and play any list as a couples game night with friends.

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Fun questions for couples

Light questions for date night or a couples game night.

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  1. 01What did you think when you first saw me across the room?
  2. 02What's your favorite date we've been on?
  3. 03Which of my habits did you find cute at first and now find annoying?
  4. 04What song makes you think of us?
  5. 05If we were a famous couple, which one would we be?
  6. 06What's the funniest thing that's happened to us together?
  7. 07Who said "I love you" first, and how did it happen?
  8. 08What's a meal we should learn to cook together?
  9. 09Where should we go on our next trip?
  10. 10What's my most-used phrase?
  11. 11Which of us would survive longer in the wilderness?
  12. 12What's something new we should try this year?
  13. 13What's your favorite photo of us?
  14. 14What's the best gift I've ever given you?
  15. 15What's a small thing I do that makes your day?
  16. 16If we had a theme song, what would it be?
  17. 17Who's the better driver, honestly?
  18. 18What would our reality show be called?
  19. 19What's the silliest fight we've ever had?
  20. 20What's one thing on your couples bucket list?
  21. 21Which of us is the bigger baby when we're sick?
  22. 22What's your favorite thing about our weekends?
  23. 23What's a tradition we should start?
  24. 24Who would win in a cooking contest between us?
  25. 25What's the most romantic thing I've done?

Questions for couples to ask each other

For learning something new about someone you know well.

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  1. 26What's something you've always wanted to tell me but haven't?
  2. 27When do you feel closest to me?
  3. 28What's one way I can support you better this month?
  4. 29What's a dream you want us to chase together?
  5. 30What did your parents' relationship teach you?
  6. 31What's something you love about the way I love you?
  7. 32What makes you feel most appreciated by me?
  8. 33What's a memory of us you think about often?
  9. 34What's something you'd like us to do more of?
  10. 35How do you like to be comforted when you're upset?
  11. 36What's one thing you've learned from me?
  12. 37What does a perfect day together look like to you?
  13. 38What's something about me that surprised you?
  14. 39What part of our life together are you most proud of?
  15. 40What's a goal you have this year that I can help with?
  16. 41How do you think we've changed since we met?
  17. 42What's something you want to get better at as a partner?
  18. 43When did you know this was serious?
  19. 44What's a fear you have about the future that we can talk about?
  20. 45What's the best decision we've made together?
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Date night questions

For more than "how was your day?"

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  1. 46What was the best moment of your week, big or small?
  2. 47What's something you're excited about right now?
  3. 48If we could teleport anywhere for dinner tonight, where?
  4. 49What's a show we should start together?
  5. 50What's something you've been thinking about a lot lately?
  6. 51What's one thing you want to do before the year ends?
  7. 52What's a place you'd love to show me?
  8. 53What would you do with a whole day off together?
  9. 54What's something you miss from when we first started dating?
  10. 55What's a skill we should learn as a couple?
  11. 56What's a topic you could talk about all night?
  12. 57What's your favorite thing we've done this year?
  13. 58What would our dream home look like?
  14. 59What's a small luxury you'd love more often?
  15. 60What's something that made you laugh today?
  16. 61What's one adventure we should plan for this year?
  17. 62What's a question you'd like me to ask you?
  18. 63What's a song you'd dance to with me right now?
  19. 64What's the best date idea you've never told me?
  20. 65If tonight were a movie, what genre would it be?

Would you rather for couples

Pick a side, then see if your partner did too.

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  1. 66Would you rather go on a picnic date or go on a fancy dinner date?
  2. 67Would you rather relive our first date or skip ahead and see us in 20 years?
  3. 68Would you rather have a trip planned for you as a surprise or plan the whole trip together?
  4. 69Would you rather cuddle on the couch all weekend or go on an adventure all weekend?
  5. 70Would you rather have your partner write you a song or have your partner write you a poem?
  6. 71Would you rather always say exactly what you feel or always know exactly what your partner feels?
  7. 72Would you rather cook dinner together every night or go out to eat every night?
  8. 73Would you rather live in a cabin in the woods together or live in a tiny apartment in a big city together?
  9. 74Would you rather get breakfast in bed once a week or get a back rub once a week?
  10. 75Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or sing duets in the car?
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This or that for couples

Quick picks for a road trip or a lazy night in.

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  1. 76Big spoon or Little spoon?
  2. 77Date night in or Date night out?
  3. 78Love letters or Love songs?
  4. 79Flowers or Chocolate?
  5. 80Cuddles or Personal space?
  6. 81Plan the date or Be surprised?
  7. 82First kiss or First date?
  8. 83Beach honeymoon or City honeymoon?
  9. 84Cook together or Order in?
  10. 85Holding hands or Arm around the shoulder?
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    Open the game on a TV, a laptop or a projector. The screen shows a six-digit code and a QR code.

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    Everyone scans the QR or types the code at LivePartyGames.com. Nobody has to install an app or make an account.

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    Every phone answers in secret, then the big screen shows what the room picked.

A couples game night

Invite two or three couples, put a list on the TV and have everyone join on their phone. The screen picks who answers each question, and with the voting games everyone guesses what their partner picked.

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What are good questions for couples?

Ones about shared memories and small things, like your favorite date or a habit that makes the other person smile. Save the big future questions for a quiet night.

Can we play these with other couples?

Yes. Put a list on the TV, everyone joins on their phone, and the game picks who answers.

Are these OK for new couples?

Start with the fun list and the date night list. The deeper ones fit better a few months in.

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