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Would you rather questions for adults: 50 grown-up dilemmas

Rent, exes, bosses, dating apps and roommates. These are choices only an adult can really weigh, and some of them will start a real conversation. They stay PG-13, so you can play them at a dinner party without anyone wincing. The question goes on the TV and everyone votes from their phone.

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All 50 questions

  1. 01Would you rather have a job you love that pays little or have a job you hate that pays a lot?
  2. 02Would you rather never pay rent again or never pay for groceries again?
  3. 03Would you rather retire at 40 with a modest income or retire at 65 and be rich?
  4. 04Would you rather have your browser history made public or have your text messages made public?
  5. 05Would you rather be able to nap anywhere instantly or never need sleep at all?
  6. 06Would you rather go to your ex's wedding or have your ex at your wedding?
  7. 07Would you rather have an unlimited travel budget or have an unlimited restaurant budget?
  8. 08Would you rather work four 10-hour days or work five 8-hour days?
  9. 09Would you rather lose your phone for a month or lose your car for a month?
  10. 10Would you rather have a boss who micromanages or have a boss who never answers?
  11. 11Would you rather move back in with your parents for a year or live with your college roommate again for a year?
  12. 12Would you rather always find a parking spot or always get the shortest line?
  13. 13Would you rather be famous for something embarrassing or be unknown but rich?
  14. 14Would you rather give up social media forever or give up streaming shows forever?
  15. 15Would you rather only be able to text or only be able to call?
  16. 16Would you rather be stuck in a boring meeting forever or be stuck in traffic forever?
  17. 17Would you rather read your partner's mind for a day or have them read yours for a day?
  18. 18Would you rather host a dinner party for all your exes or host a dinner party for all your old bosses?
  19. 19Would you rather never be able to lie or never be able to tell when someone is lying?
  20. 20Would you rather live in a house with no internet or live with internet but no air conditioning?
  21. 21Would you rather learn your best friend's biggest secret or have your best friend learn yours?
  22. 22Would you rather be the best-dressed person at every event or be the funniest person at every event?
  23. 23Would you rather get $50,000 today or get $1,000 a month for the rest of your life?
  24. 24Would you rather go on a blind date set up by your mom or go on a blind date set up by your best friend?
  25. 25Would you rather have your worst date shown at your wedding or have your worst breakup text read at your wedding?
  26. 26Would you rather never use a dating app again or only meet people through dating apps?
  27. 27Would you rather pay off all your debt today or get a 20 percent raise starting next month?
  28. 28Would you rather do your taxes by hand forever or do laundry by hand forever?
  29. 29Would you rather have a messy roommate or have a loud roommate?
  30. 30Would you rather always be the one who cancels plans or always be the one who gets canceled on?
  31. 31Would you rather be single for the next five years or stay five years in a relationship you're unsure about?
  32. 32Would you rather know everything your coworkers say about you or never know a word of it?
  33. 33Would you rather live without coffee or live without wine?
  34. 34Would you rather have a midlife crisis at 30 or have it at 60?
  35. 35Would you rather go back to high school for a week or go back to your first job for a week?
  36. 36Would you rather date someone with your exact personality or date your total opposite?
  37. 37Would you rather sit next to a nonstop talker on a long flight or sit next to a crying baby on a long flight?
  38. 38Would you rather have a perfect memory or be able to forget anything you choose?
  39. 39Would you rather work from home forever or work in an office with all your friends?
  40. 40Would you rather be really good at karaoke or be really good at flirting?
  41. 41Would you rather have your parents write your dating profile or have your ex write it?
  42. 42Would you rather never eat out again or never cook again?
  43. 43Would you rather spend a weekend in a big casino town or spend a weekend at a quiet cabin?
  44. 44Would you rather know how many people have had a crush on you or know exactly who the last one was?
  45. 45Would you rather lose all your photos or lose all your saved passwords?
  46. 46Would you rather have a famous sibling or be the famous sibling?
  47. 47Would you rather wear sweatpants for the rest of your life or wear formal clothes for the rest of your life?
  48. 48Would you rather get a text from your ex every birthday or never hear from any ex again?
  49. 49Would you rather relive your twenties or skip to your fifties with everything figured out?
  50. 50Would you rather be the one who stays too long at the party or be the one who leaves without saying goodbye?
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    Open the game on a TV, a laptop or a projector. The screen shows a six-digit code and a QR code.

  2. 02

    Everyone scans the QR or types the code at LivePartyGames.com. Nobody has to install an app or make an account.

  3. 03

    Every phone answers in secret, then the big screen shows what the room picked.

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Is this an 18+ deck?

No. It's written for adults, but it stays PG-13. The topics are grown-up, like money and exes, without anything explicit.

What kind of party is it for?

Dinner parties, game nights, a group of old friends or a work happy hour where people know each other well.

How do we play it live?

Put the deck on a TV or shared screen, everyone scans the code or types the 6-digit code on their phone, and the votes are revealed once everyone has picked.

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