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Big spoon or little spoon. Date night in or out. These are quick, light and a little sweet, and they're good for seeing how well you know each other. Each of you picks on your own phone and the screen shows if you matched.

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  1. 01Big spoon or Little spoon?
  2. 02Date night in or Date night out?
  3. 03Love letters or Love songs?
  4. 04Flowers or Chocolate?
  5. 05Cuddles or Personal space?
  6. 06Plan the date or Be surprised?
  7. 07First kiss or First date?
  8. 08Beach honeymoon or City honeymoon?
  9. 09Cook together or Order in?
  10. 10Holding hands or Arm around the shoulder?
  11. 11Movie marathon or Long walk?
  12. 12Road trip or Staycation?
  13. 13Forehead kiss or Cheek kiss?
  14. 14Call or Text all day?
  15. 15Big wedding or Elope?
  16. 16Dog together or Cat together?
  17. 17Watch the sunrise or Watch the sunset?
  18. 18Slow dance or Karaoke duet?
  19. 19Compliments or Gifts?
  20. 20Breakfast in bed or Candlelit dinner?
  21. 21Say sorry first or Hear sorry first?
  22. 22Love at first sight or Slow burn?
  23. 23Sweet nicknames or Real names?
  24. 24Share dessert or Own dessert?
  25. 25Affection in public or Affection at home?
  26. 26Adventure date or Cozy date?
  27. 27Handwritten note or Sweet voicemail?
  28. 28Picnic or Rooftop dinner?
  29. 29Same hobbies or Different hobbies?
  30. 30Cabin or Beach house?
  31. 31Morning kiss or Goodnight kiss?
  32. 32Couple photos or No photos?
  33. 33Watch a show together or Read side by side?
  34. 34Anniversary trip or Anniversary party?
  35. 35Surprise visit or Planned visit?
  36. 36Long hug or Quick kiss?
  37. 37Stargazing or City lights?
  38. 38Shared blanket or Two blankets?
  39. 39Cook for them or Be cooked for?
  40. 40Inside jokes or Grand gestures?
  41. 41Shared playlist or Separate playlists?
  42. 42Spontaneous trip or Planned trip?
  43. 43Talk it out now or Sleep on it?
  44. 44Holding hands or Linking arms?
  45. 45Rom-com or Action movie?
  46. 46Sunday brunch or Saturday night out?
  47. 47Grow old in the city or Grow old in the country?
  48. 48Matching outfits or Never matching?
  49. 49Double date or Just the two of us?
  50. 50Love note on the mirror or Love note in the lunch bag?
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  1. 01

    Open the game on a TV, a laptop or a projector. The screen shows a six-digit code and a QR code.

  2. 02

    Everyone scans the QR or types the code at LivePartyGames.com. Nobody has to install an app or make an account.

  3. 03

    Every phone answers in secret, then the big screen shows what the room picked.

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Can two people play?

Yes. Each of you votes on your own phone and the reveal shows if you picked the same thing.

Is it a good date night game?

Yes. It's quick enough to play over dinner and light enough for a new relationship.

Can we play with other couples?

Yes. It works well at a double date or couples' game night.

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